Being a newly married girl is not easy. Once married you are supposed to act and behave in a certain way. At times it all becomes too complicated, and we end up doing silly and immature things only to regret later. Please remember one thing; just a positive start can bring positive results. Start your married life on a positive note without assuming anything. Let’s discover the things that we can avoid.
These are a few things you should think twice before doing under the Mrs. title:
- Do not compare your husband with any other man. Not even with your father. He is who he is.
- Don’t avoid your in-laws. They are now your parents as well, take care, love and cherish them.
- All the mothers-in-law are not bad. Try to communicate with them and be their friend.
- Do not comment on your in-laws about the superficial things. It’s not your business.
- Do not complain about the changes and adjustments that you had to make in your lifestyle post marriage. Always remember, to begin this new phase of life, your husband probably had to make many changes and adjustments as you had to.
- Most of the women are shopaholics. But after marriage, do not spend like there is no tomorrow. Both of you have a family to run, and it's not entirely your husband's duty to save.
- Do not expect him to pick you up or drop you to office/home etc. all the time.
- Do not share every problem with your parents or close friends.
- Do not expect gifts/surprises beyond his ability.
- Do not give up your own dreams.
- Do not love him more than yourself.
- Do not think he is the end of your world.
- Do not lose your identity by assuming you are nothing without him.
- Do not think he is nothing without you.
Many changes and adjustments come after marriage. Some girls change entirely and others to some extent. Some drown themselves in all the household activities and forget to cherish their beloved partner. No matter what you do or don’t do, always make time for your husband for a bright and happy future together.
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